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Love an Alpha Female if You Dare

by James Zealy

If you don't know an alpha female
It is diffcult to understand
Why Her path is not traditional

They are a force of nature
Hearts riding precariously on their sleeve
Who Cry in private when there best efforts
Collapse in front of them

There is no patience
For meaningless phrases
That say nothing

Their focus is forcing events
To comply with their will
Sowing a field of comfortable space

To love them, is difficult
At times Beyond possible
At times beyond rewarding

They do not trust others
To keep them safe
To keep them safe

They do not trust others
To get it right
To get it right

They do not trust others
To share their hurt
To share their hurt

Loving them means understanding fragility
Is their constant demon
Spawning an anxiety riden load of energy

Spent escaping fear of loss
Fear of hurt
Fear of neglect
Fear of lonliness

Control is their trusted tool
To pave their path to peace
Until it isn't

When her storm of kinetic force stops
She is a shell of helplessness
Awaiting her final resting place

11/25/2011

Author's Note: I wrote a comment on Dawn Davidson's peom Alpha Female Attitudes. She suggested I make it a poem. Dawn be careful what you ask for, I hope you like it. All kidding aside, my wife is an Alpha Female, still fighting even though she is a shell of herself. The day she stops is the day she dies.

Posted on 11/25/2011
Copyright © 2024 James Zealy

Member Comments on this Poem
Posted by Alison McKenzie on 11/25/11 at 08:01 PM

I do appreciate your point of view, James. I see some of myself in those lines, too, although, personally, the last verse isn't true of all of us. Heh. Thank you for taking Dawn's suggestion (thanks to Dawn for making it) and running with it on this work!! Beautifully done!!

Posted by Mo Couts on 11/26/11 at 02:14 AM

James, this is DELIGHTFUL! I like to think this describes me most of the time, lol.

Posted by Nicole D Gregory on 11/27/11 at 02:19 AM

The "trust" issues of the Alpha Female is spot on. Love this piece. Thanks to both you and Dawn for the complimentary works. This made my heart hurt... I thought we kept our secrets and emotions in-check. Kudos to your wife for her inspiration within this work! ~N

Posted by Lori Blair on 11/28/11 at 03:03 AM

What a strong and loving woman she is..even fragile with illness our true soul shines as does your write..thank you!

Posted by Vikki Owens on 12/02/11 at 09:15 PM

amen.

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