| Posted by Genevieve Sturrock on 03/23/09 at 01:30 PM i have often wondered if 'closure' is just another way of saying 'i need to be one to walk away from you.' relationships are never truly closed because when you love someone, you give a piece of yourself to them and that piece is always with them, even when you are not...and you cannot get that piece back. but somehow, it seems it would hurt less or be missed less if we were the ones who said 'good bye' or 'get out' or 'i can't do this anymore'....but truthfully, it hurts just as much and takes just as much time to heal. you can't skip the healing part. open wounds take awhile to close up completely and there will always be a scar to remind you. same with the heart. much love you both! (((hugs))) |
