chances are, if you don't want to give him the satisfaction of knowing you were looking at his fly, then he's not worthy of your melanie-ness. the best loves...you can tell each other anything and everything and a simple moment, like pointing out an open fly, should be fun and worth a laugh, a burst of a thrill and perhaps some later inspiration. fun write though. i wish i could capture these subtle nuances of life. i never do.