What Matters Then? I Am Still Wondering: April 5th, 2005
04/26/2005 05:26 p.m.


A 'soul mate' of my friend told her the other day that if he is not 'insistent', it's because of my friend’s husband, who happens to be his friend by virtue of being my friend's friend. And here I wonder. I wonder as to why my friend, her very BEING, her inclination, her responses, her choice based on her past and present, matters nothing and what matters is her husband and his friendship with the husband, who happens to be his friend by virtue of being her friend. When there's a projection there's something being shrouded, hidden. I wonder what's hidden behind this projection of not being 'insistent'? Is it frustration? Would he ever think of her husband if my friend responded positively? Would he think of this so-called friendship with her husband if she had given him the desired lift? Would he? We all know the husband would matter not. Neither would the “soulmate’s” soul. Nor would the “soulmate's” entity, her very BEING. What matters then? Where's the soul communicating with the “soulmate’s” soul? Ha! Ha! Ha! But I am still wondering.