Back home
07/20/2004 04:51 a.m.
After sleeping overnight in the airport in Ontario, CA... we finally got back home last night.

Nothing has been done in regards to services and burial. My ex- mother-in-law is being impossible to say the least and she won't answer calls from my family.

I have an appt. for my son to see a counselor on Thursday, just to make sure he is coping with everything ok.

In the meantime I have a full plate. I have to go get dental work replaced this week, go get copies of the boys' birth certificates again (I can't find the copies I got last summer and things are chaotic with trying to get packed to move).

Next week I am supposed to be closing on the house Monday, I have to work Tue-Thurs. and Friday I have an appt. with Soc. Security. Despite that my ex-mother-in-law has so far refused to sign the death certificate, SS said they can get death verification from the state of California, and go ahead and process the boys' survivor benefits.

I'm of the mind to hold our own memorial service for my ex for the benefit of the boys since this is dragging on so long. My oldest son's birthday is the beginning of next month, and I don't want him to have to go through a funeral, etc. right before his birthday.

Please continue to remember us in your prayers. Our path in life is often dificult, but it's one we must follow and find our way on.